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Moral essays. With an English translation by J.W. Basore

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ON ANGER, II. XXXIII. fr-.xxxiv. 4stripling prince, all the while so kindly <strong>an</strong>d polite,did not permit even this ;pledging the old m<strong>an</strong>'shealth again <strong>an</strong>d again, he tortured him <strong>by</strong> m-ginghim to lighten his sorrow, while on the other h<strong>an</strong>dthe father made a show of being happy <strong>an</strong>d obh\iousof all that had been done that day. The other .son was doomed, had the guest displeased the -4—executioner.We must, therefore, refrain from <strong>an</strong>ger, whetherhe I)e~aii equ»l—of a supn4or'-t)T <strong>an</strong>~iTifertor whoprovo^s its pow er. A contest ^^ith one's equal ishazardous, with a superior mad, with <strong>an</strong> inferiordegraHing. It is a petty <strong>an</strong>d sorry person who willbile J2ack^\yhen he is bitten. Mice <strong>an</strong>d <strong>an</strong>ts, if youbring your h<strong>an</strong>d near them, do turn at you ; feeblecreatures think they are hurt if they are only touched.It will make us more kindly if we remember thebenefit we once received from him who now provokesour <strong>an</strong>ger, <strong>an</strong>d let his kindnesses atone for his offence.Let us jilso bear in mind how much approval we shallgain from a reputatTon for forbear<strong>an</strong>ce, how m<strong>an</strong>yhave been made useful friends through forgiveness.From the examples of Sulla's cruelty comes theless^i that—we^ should feel no <strong>an</strong>ger toward thechilclren of pergonal <strong>an</strong>d political enemies, since heremcjved from the state even the children of theproscribed. Tliere is no greater injustice th<strong>an</strong> tomake a m<strong>an</strong> the inheritor of hatred borne toward hisfather. Whenever we are loth to pardon, let usconsider whether we ourselves should benefit if allmen were inexorable. How often has he who refusedforgiveness sought it ! How often has he grovelledat the feet of the m<strong>an</strong> whom he had repulsed fromhis o\vn ! WTxat is more splendid th<strong>an</strong> to exch<strong>an</strong>ge243

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