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First of all this is love you can give to your child, is to give the child the breast. This
is how the child can feel the mama. And this is how the child can learn sex, this is
how the child can learn how to love, how to care and how to feel protected. And also
the tradition in Russia, you will never see the child whose laying for 2 hours in the
preambulater [ze bedoelt kinderzitje] The Belgium people say, “yeah you need to let
the child be alone, you need to let the child starts feeling independent”. But how
can you spoil a child before the child is 1 year old? Because before, you can give the
child the feeling that the society doesn’t want the child by not taking the child in the
arms, you can’t take a child that screams for hours! You can only do harm for your
child. It will be independent but it will be a very lonely person. The person who
doesn’t know how to love, the person who doesn’t know, more important, the person
who doesn’t know how to be loved. (…) Because for example they were not cared
like that also by their mothers. Their mothers wanted them to be strong woman, but
these women they can not be real mothers then. (I16; RUS; 29 jaar; HO;