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Managing Sticky Situations at Work

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Chapter 8<strong>Sticky</strong> Romantic <strong>Situ<strong>at</strong>ions</strong> in the OfficeYour boss tells you how <strong>at</strong>tractive you look. You notice two coworkerstalking intim<strong>at</strong>ely in the coffee shop. You spot your deputy assistantstaring <strong>at</strong> you. Today’s workplace is ripe for sticky situ<strong>at</strong>ionsbetween the sexes. Now th<strong>at</strong> we no longer have a male-domin<strong>at</strong>edworkforce, we run into new questions and dilemmas all the time. Perhapsthe questions are not so new, but they have taken a new turn. Fifteento twenty years ago, office romance of any kind was consideredtaboo. Today, however, according to Bixler and Dugan, there aremore office romances than in any other environment. They say officeromances are as common as laptops. 1Wh<strong>at</strong> differences exist from the work environment of our parents tothe work environment of today? According to the Bureau of LaborSt<strong>at</strong>istics, there are more women in the workplace than ever. ‘‘Women’slabor force particip<strong>at</strong>ion r<strong>at</strong>es have increased significantly overthe past 50 years, narrowing the gap between r<strong>at</strong>es for women andmen.’’ 2Furthermore people are more sensitive to the issue of sexual harassmenttodaythaninthepast.Asillustr<strong>at</strong>edinthepopulartelevisionseries Mad Men, years ago a woman who might have felt harassed

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