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wife has the right to be clothed, fed, and cared for by the<br />

husband, <strong>in</strong> accordance with his means and her style of life.<br />

These rights are to be exercised without extravagance or<br />

miserl<strong>in</strong>ess.<br />

Non-Material Rights. The wife's material rights are not<br />

her only assurances and securities. She has other rights of a<br />

moral nature: and they are equally b<strong>in</strong>d<strong>in</strong>g and specific. A<br />

husband is commanded by the Law of God to treat his wife<br />

with equity, to respect her feel<strong>in</strong>gs, and to show her k<strong>in</strong>dness<br />

and consideration. She is not to be shown any aversion by<br />

the husband or subjected to suspense and uncerta<strong>in</strong>ty. A co-<br />

rollary of this rule is that no man is allowed to keep his wife<br />

with the <strong>in</strong>tention of <strong>in</strong>flict<strong>in</strong>g harm on her or h<strong>in</strong>der<strong>in</strong>g her<br />

freedom. If he has no love or sympathy for her, she has the<br />

right to demand freedom from the marital bond, and no one<br />

may stand <strong>in</strong> her way to a new life.<br />

B. The Wife's Obligations: The Husband's Rights,<br />

The ma<strong>in</strong> obligation of the wife as a partner <strong>in</strong> a marital rela-<br />

tionship is to contribute to the success and blissfulness of the<br />

marriage as much as possible. She must be attentive to the<br />

comfort and well-be<strong>in</strong>g of her mate. She may neither offend<br />

him nor hurt his feel<strong>in</strong>gs. Perhaps noth<strong>in</strong>g can illustrate the<br />

po<strong>in</strong>t better than the Qur'anic statement which describes the<br />

righteous people as those who pray:

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