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With respect to <strong>in</strong>timacy, the wife is to make herself de-<br />

sirable; to be attractive, responsive, and cooperative. A wife<br />

may not deny herself to her husband, for the Qur'an speaks<br />

of them as a comfort to each other. Due consideration is, of<br />

course, given to health and decency, rnoreover, the wife is<br />

not permitted to do anyth<strong>in</strong>g that may render her compan-<br />

ionship less desirable or less gratify<strong>in</strong>g. If she does any such<br />

th<strong>in</strong>a or neslects herself, the husband has the right to <strong>in</strong>ter-<br />

fere with her freedom to rectify the situation. To <strong>in</strong>sure max-<br />

imum self-fulfilment for both partners, he is not permitted to<br />

do anyth<strong>in</strong>g on his pan that may impede her gratification.<br />

4, Parent-Child Relationship<br />

A. The Child's Rights: The Parent's Duties. <strong>Islam</strong>'s<br />

general approach to children may be summarized <strong>in</strong> a few<br />

pr<strong>in</strong>ciples. First, it is a Div<strong>in</strong>e <strong>in</strong>junction that no child may<br />

become the cause of harm to the parents (Qur'an, 2:233).<br />

Seeondly, by irnplication the parents should reciprocate and<br />

cause the child no harm either. The Qur'an recognizes very<br />

clearly that parents are not always immune from overprotec-<br />

tiveness or negligence. On the basis of this recognition, it<br />

has. thirdly, established certa<strong>in</strong> guidel<strong>in</strong>es and po<strong>in</strong>ted out<br />

certa<strong>in</strong> facts with respect to children. It po<strong>in</strong>ts out that chil-<br />

dren are joys of life as well as sources of pride, seeds of van-<br />

ity and false securky, founta<strong>in</strong>s of distress and temptation.

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