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than to be free <strong>in</strong> committ<strong>in</strong>g immoral and irresponsible of-<br />

fenses. This i s even much better for the wife herself; when<br />

she knows that her man is bound by legal regulations and<br />

moral pr<strong>in</strong>eiples <strong>in</strong> his <strong>in</strong>timacy with another woman, she is<br />

most likely to be less irritable than when he enjoys the same<br />

<strong>in</strong>timacy otherwise. Naturally she does not like man to be<br />

shared by anybody else. But when she is confronted with a<br />

situation where<strong>in</strong> the man has the choice to be either legally<br />

responsible and morally bound, or illegally and immorally<br />

associated with someone else, she would certa<strong>in</strong>ly choose<br />

the first alternative and accept the situation. However, if she<br />

is harmed or her rights are violated, she can always refer to<br />

the law or obta<strong>in</strong> a divorce if it be <strong>in</strong> her best <strong>in</strong>terest.<br />

By apply<strong>in</strong>g <strong>Islam</strong>ic polygamy to this case, the man's <strong>in</strong>-<br />

tegrity, the second woman's dignity and the moral values of<br />

society would be more safeguarded. These cases need no<br />

elaboration. They are factual elements <strong>in</strong> daily life. They<br />

may be rare, but rarer i s the practice of polygamy among<br />

Muslims. Those Muslims who resort to polygamy are much<br />

rarer than the <strong>in</strong>fidel husbands and wives who live <strong>in</strong> mon-<br />

ogamous societies.<br />

Although it is risky and cont<strong>in</strong>gent on many prerequi-<br />

sites, as expla<strong>in</strong>ed earlier, polygamy is far better than negli-<br />

gence and <strong>in</strong>fidel ity, hypocrisy and <strong>in</strong>security, immorality<br />

and <strong>in</strong>decency. It helps men and women to solve their diffi-<br />

cult problems on a realistic and responsible basis. It br<strong>in</strong>gs

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