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ity that a person should commit adultery or pretend to have<br />

committed it to obta<strong>in</strong> a divorce. The viewpo<strong>in</strong>t of <strong>Islam</strong> on<br />

adultery has been already stated above. What happens, how-<br />

ever, <strong>in</strong> rnost eases is this: people are not divorced because<br />

they have committed adultery or pretend to have committed<br />

it, but they commit adultery or pretend it <strong>in</strong> order to obta<strong>in</strong><br />

divorce decrees, which are not granted otherwise. What a re-<br />

verse and disgraceful course <strong>in</strong> human relations!<br />

This is the stand of <strong>Islam</strong> on the matter. If divorce has to<br />

be obta<strong>in</strong>ed as a Iast resort, it must be granted with dignity<br />

and due respect. When <strong>Islam</strong> is applied to married life, there<br />

will be no room for "separation" or "adultery" as bases for<br />

divorce, Nor will there be that easy Hollywood-type divorce,<br />

which sprang as an extreme reaction to an extreme rigidity.<br />

Any system deal<strong>in</strong>g with human nature has to be realistic<br />

and moderate, mak<strong>in</strong>g allowances for all circumstances with<br />

preparedness to cope with all conditions. Else, it would be<br />

self-destructive and groundless, a state of which <strong>Islam</strong> is ab-<br />

solutely free (see Qur'an, 2:224-232; 4:34-35; 4:127-130).<br />

One f<strong>in</strong>al remark will conclude this discussion. In virtu-<br />

al ly every known society and religion, there are ways to ter-<br />

m<strong>in</strong>ate any marriage. The divorce rates <strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>dustrialized<br />

world are rapidly ris<strong>in</strong>g and divorce laws are <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>gly<br />

liberalized. However, divorce <strong>in</strong> <strong>Islam</strong> rema<strong>in</strong>s a remarkable<br />

moral act. Mates are commanded by God to be k<strong>in</strong>d and pa-<br />

tient and are rem<strong>in</strong>ded to how one may dislike someth<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong><br />

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