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legal and decent way, they never fail to f<strong>in</strong>d other channels,<br />

although risky and temporary. Very few women can do<br />

without the permanent and assured companionship of men.<br />

The overwhelm<strong>in</strong>g majority of unmarried women <strong>in</strong> such a<br />

society f<strong>in</strong>d their way to meet men. They put up lavish par-<br />

ties, organize socialcocktails, attend bus<strong>in</strong>ess conventions,<br />

pursue outgo<strong>in</strong>g roads, and so on. The results of this desper-<br />

ate hunt<strong>in</strong>g is not always moral or decent. A certa<strong>in</strong> married<br />

man may appeal to some woman, and she would try to w<strong>in</strong><br />

him legally or otherwise. Also, some woman may attract a<br />

certa<strong>in</strong> man, who might be demoralized or depressed for<br />

some reason or other. Such a man will try to have some <strong>in</strong>ti-<br />

mate relationship with her <strong>in</strong> the open or <strong>in</strong> secret, <strong>in</strong> a de-<br />

cent manner or otherwise, <strong>in</strong> a legal form or just by common<br />

law. This would certa<strong>in</strong>ly have serious effects on the family<br />

life of the married man <strong>in</strong>volved, and would ru<strong>in</strong> from with-<br />

<strong>in</strong> the morale and social morality of society. Wives would be<br />

deserted or neglected; children would be forsaken; homes<br />

would be broken, and so on.<br />

The woman who meets a male companion under such<br />

circumstances has no security or dignity or rights of any<br />

k<strong>in</strong>d. Her male companion or professional lover could be<br />

with her, ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong> her and frequent her residence with gifts<br />

and read<strong>in</strong>ess to shower on her all expressions of passionate<br />

romance. But what assurance has she got? How can she stop<br />

him from walk<strong>in</strong>g out on her or lett<strong>in</strong>g her down <strong>in</strong> times

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