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of this k<strong>in</strong>d from his own sel f, to protect the woman <strong>in</strong>-<br />

volved - whether she is the wife or the secret friend- aga<strong>in</strong>st<br />

unnecessary complications, to ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong> the moral <strong>in</strong>tegrity<br />

of soeiety, and to m<strong>in</strong>imize evil, <strong>Islam</strong> has allowed recourse<br />

to polygamy with the reservations and conditions mentioned<br />

above. This is to be applied as an emergency measure and is<br />

certa<strong>in</strong>ly much healthier than nom<strong>in</strong>al monogamy and irre-<br />

sponsible relations between man and woman. Men and<br />

women, who f<strong>in</strong>d themselves <strong>in</strong> a desperate state or <strong>in</strong> a dif-<br />

ficult entanglement, may resort to this solution. But if there<br />

is any fear of <strong>in</strong>justice and harm to any party, then monoga-<br />

my is the rule.<br />

4. Nature itself requires certa<strong>in</strong> th<strong>in</strong>gs and actions of<br />

man <strong>in</strong> particular. It is man who, as a rule, travels a lot on<br />

bus<strong>in</strong>ess trips and stays away from home for various periods<br />

of time, on long and short journeys, <strong>in</strong> his own country and<br />

abroad. No one can take the responsibility of ascerta<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g<br />

that all men under such circumstances re ma<strong>in</strong> faithful and<br />

pure. Experience shows that most men do fail and commit<br />

immoral offenses with strange women dur<strong>in</strong>g the period of<br />

absence from home, which may be months or years. Some<br />

people are weak and cannot resist even the easily resistible<br />

temptations. As a result, they fail <strong>in</strong>to s<strong>in</strong>, and that might<br />

cause a break <strong>in</strong> the family. This is another case where re-<br />

stricted polygamy may apply. It i s much better for a man of<br />

this type to have a second home with a second legal wife

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