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<strong>in</strong>al parents? Many complications are <strong>in</strong>volved. The <strong>in</strong>stitu-<br />

tion is no doubt unhealthy and may cause much harm to the<br />

child, to the parents, artificial and real, to other relations of<br />

the adopt<strong>in</strong>g family, and to society at large. Adoption is one<br />

of the major reasons that encourage many people to <strong>in</strong>dulge<br />

<strong>in</strong> irresponsible activities and <strong>in</strong>timacies. It is be<strong>in</strong>g com-<br />

mercialized nowadays. There are sorne people who put up<br />

their children for "sale" or trade as the news media show;<br />

That is not <strong>in</strong> the African or Asian jungles; it is right here <strong>in</strong><br />

Canada and America. Because of all that, <strong>Islam</strong> does not ac-<br />

cept the <strong>in</strong>stitution or tolerate its practice among Muslims<br />

(See Qur'an, 33:4-6).<br />

With these three alternatives discarded for the reasons<br />

mentioned. <strong>Islam</strong> offers its own solution. It permits a man <strong>in</strong><br />

such a situation to remarry, to satisfy his natural needs and at<br />

the same time ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong> his childless wife, vvho probably<br />

needs him now more than at any other time. This is, aga<strong>in</strong>, a<br />

permission, a course that a desperate man may take, <strong>in</strong>stead<br />

of adoption or divorce or unnatural suppression of his aspi-<br />

rations. It is another <strong>in</strong>stance where remarriage is the best<br />

feasible choice, another way out of a difficult situation to<br />

help people to live a normal secure life <strong>in</strong> every aspect.<br />

3. There are cases and times where the wife is <strong>in</strong>capable<br />

of fulfill<strong>in</strong>g her marital obligations. She may fail to be as<br />

pleasant a companion as she should be or even as she would<br />

like to be. She may be <strong>in</strong> a state where she cannot give the

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