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1 . In<br />

some societies women outnumber men; This is es-<br />

pecially true of <strong>in</strong>dustrial and commercial regions, and also<br />

of countries that get <strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong> wars. Now if a Muslim soci-<br />

ety is <strong>in</strong> this category, and if <strong>Islam</strong> were to forbid polygamy<br />

and restrict legal marriage to one wife only, what would the<br />

unmarried ones do? Where and how would they f<strong>in</strong>d sympa-<br />

thy, understand<strong>in</strong>g, support and protection? The implications<br />

of the problem are not simply physical; they are also moral,<br />

sentimental, social, emotionai and natural. Every normal<br />

woman - whether she is <strong>in</strong> bus<strong>in</strong>ess or <strong>in</strong> foreign service or<br />

<strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>telligence department - longs for a home. a family of<br />

her own. She needs some one to care for and some one to<br />

care for her. She desires to belong socially and familiarly.<br />

Even if we look at it from a strictly physically and familiar-<br />

ly. Even if we look at it from a strictly physical po<strong>in</strong>t of<br />

view, the implications are still very serious, and we cannot<br />

just ignore them; otherwise, psychological complexes, ner-<br />

vous breaks, social disgust and mental <strong>in</strong>stability would de-<br />

velop as legitimate results of leav<strong>in</strong>g the problem unsolved.<br />

Cl<strong>in</strong>ical evidence of this is overwhelm<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

These natural desires and sentimental aspirations have to<br />

be realized. These needs to belong, and to care, and to be<br />

cared for, have to be satisfied somehow or other. Women <strong>in</strong><br />

such a situation do not usually transform their nature or lead<br />

an angelic course of life. They feel that they have every right<br />

to enjoy life and obta<strong>in</strong> their share. If they cannot have it <strong>in</strong> a

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