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"Our Lord! Grant unto us wives and off-<br />

spr<strong>in</strong>g who will be thc joy and the comfort<br />

of our eyes, and guide us to be models of<br />

righteousness".<br />

(Our'an. 25:74)<br />

This is the basis on which all the wife's obligations rest<br />

and from which they flow. To fulfill this basic obligation,<br />

the wife must be faithful, trustworthy, and honest. More spe-<br />

cifically, she must not deceive her mate by deliberately<br />

avoid<strong>in</strong>g conception lest it deprive him of legitimate pro-<br />

geny. Nor must she allow any other person to have access to<br />

that which is exclusively the husband's right, i.e. sexual <strong>in</strong>ti-<br />

macy. A corollary of this is that she must not receive or en-<br />

terta<strong>in</strong> strange males <strong>in</strong> her home without his knowledge and<br />

consent. Nor may she accept their gifts without his approval.<br />

This is probably meant to avoid jealousy, suspicion, gossip,<br />

etc, and also to ma<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong> the <strong>in</strong>tegrity of all parties con-<br />

cerned. The husband's possessions are her trust. If she has<br />

access to any portion thereof, or if she is entrusted with any<br />

fund, she must discharge her duty wisely and thriftily. She<br />

may not lend or dispose of any of his belong<strong>in</strong>gs without his<br />

permission.

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