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PUSHING TO THE FRONT<br />

2. every day take little StepS toWardS tHe dreaM.<br />

I committed to take little steps toward my dream every day, and this<br />

goal has been important in my journey to becoming a doctor. Along<br />

the way, there were times when I went the wrong way and even times<br />

when I fell down. The important thing to remember is that each time I<br />

got out of the groove, I stood back up and continued taking little steps<br />

toward my dream.<br />

With this strategy well in place, I breezed through school. My journey<br />

to becoming a doctor, while sometimes difficult, was never a journey<br />

that I questioned until I actually got into medical school. I had been<br />

accepted to one of the best medical schools in the country. I was so<br />

happy. I remember bonding with the other students over the smell of<br />

formaldehyde as we dissected cadavers and laughing as we looked under<br />

microscopes learning how to tell if the tissue on the slide was brain<br />

or kidney. All of my dreams were in the palm of my hand.<br />

One night I was sitting home with my nose stuck in a big medical book,<br />

just about to doze off. Suddenly the phone rang. It was my dad. He said,<br />

“Sugar, the doctors say your mom has cancer and it is very advanced. .<br />

. . She has two months to live.”<br />

It took my breath away to hear those words. I felt like I had been kicked<br />

in the stomach, and my eyes began to sting with tears. The phone slid<br />

from my hand and hit the floor I heard myself scream, “Why! It is not<br />

fair. NO! Not my mom!” I cried through the night as my heart broke<br />

into a million pieces.<br />

The next morning I had a big decision: go home to care for my mom<br />

or stay in school and follow my dreams. Of course, I left school and<br />

returned home to become daughter and caregiver. I deeply loved my<br />

mom. I remember sitting at her bedside as she said to me, “Sugar, I am<br />

not ready to die.” I took her hand in mine, looked her in the eye, and<br />

said, “Mom, I need you to do one thing for me. I need you to believe<br />

with all of your heart and soul that you will get better, and don’t worry<br />

about anything else.”<br />

3. iF yoU Believe… anytHing iS poSSiBle.<br />

These were hard times. I was devastated at the thought of my mom<br />

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