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MDA, I knew I was getting laid. All I had to do was<br />

mention sex once and touch them anywhere, even<br />

their arm and they wanted more.”—Anonymous<br />

48-year-old resident of Indiana and subscriber to<br />

the DrugWar.com email list<br />

~<br />

“Personally, for my own sexual activities, I’m more<br />

of a mushroom person. I’ve never tried heroin or<br />

cocaine or even LSD, preferring mushrooms or<br />

perhaps a good tab of ecstasy.”—Velocity Chyaldd<br />

eventually shooting, cocaine, forget about it—sex was suddenly<br />

nothing more than a way for me to make more money<br />

to cop more cocaine and heroin. Forget about love and forget<br />

about pleasure.<br />

But this isn’t how it works for everyone. Some people thoroughly<br />

enjoy taking cocaine while having sex. Some folks<br />

have no problem with taking heroin and maintaining an erection<br />

all night and never catching a habit—or if they do, not<br />

letting it get in the way of their sex. Some folks love taking<br />

speed and screwing all night. It’s a case where “to each his/<br />

her own” rings true.<br />

Heroin, Cocaine, and<br />

Methamphetamines: The Powders<br />

“‘Dope Dick, an Ethnographic Examination’ or<br />

‘Faking the Big O: A Male’s Perspective.’ When I<br />

had girlfriends who I was hiding my dope hobby<br />

from, I got good at faking the O. ‘Honey, how<br />

come you always come so quick first thing in the<br />

morning?’ they’d ask. ‘I guess I’m just a morning<br />

person.’”—Steven Anker<br />

~<br />

“Cocaine, sniffing, is odd. It feels real nice, but can<br />

frustrate as full orgasm seems elusive. Smoking<br />

cocaine, the vibes are all wrong for sex, kinda<br />

creepy, really. Heroin, I’ve no desire for much more<br />

than noddin’ and chillin’, maybe a snuggle while<br />

I drift, with a place to rest my head.”—Sharon<br />

Secor<br />

~<br />

“Crack or freebase…. Sex is the only thing that<br />

gets my mind off of being paranoid when I do<br />

either. Makes me horny as a dog, but<br />

then I have trouble ‘getting it up’ so<br />

combine that with a prescription which<br />

helps me get it up (not Viagra, there<br />

are others I enjoy better), and voila! Whew! Take<br />

a hit at the same time I am coming and bam! The<br />

biggest best fucking physical and mental orgasms<br />

I’ve ever had in my life!”—Anonymous 48-year-old<br />

Indiana resident<br />

For this writer, heroin and cocaine both started out being extremely<br />

sexy drugs. I would shoot heroin with a lover, then<br />

make love all night, unable to come yet able to stay hard for<br />

hours. It was an awesomely beautiful experience each and<br />

every time—until I caught a habit. Then my use of heroin got<br />

in the way of sex and rapidly became much more important<br />

than sex ever was.<br />

Cocaine was very similar for me—when simply snorting the<br />

powder form, I felt like a god in bed and would find myself<br />

feeling especially kinky. But once I began smoking, then<br />

Cocaine (and speed) has been alleged by some researchers,<br />

not to mention anecdotally by many users, to release such a<br />

flood of dopamine in the brain that it blows away any release<br />

naturally occurring from orgasms, making sex seem somehow<br />

insignificant to the habitual user. “As a result of cocaine’s<br />

actions in the nucleus accumbens, there are increased impulses<br />

leaving the nucleus accumbens to activate the reward<br />

system, and with continued use of cocaine, the body relies<br />

on this drug to maintain rewarding feelings. The person is no<br />

longer able to feel the positive reinforcement or pleasurable<br />

feelings of natural rewards (food, water, sex).” 10<br />

While it is questionable as to whether this becomes an issue<br />

or problem with most recreational, part-time sniffers, from my<br />

own personal experiences and taking into account the numerous<br />

tales told by hardcore cocaine, heroin, and speed addicts<br />

I’ve known and loved, this lack of interest in sex amongst<br />

addicts is more often than not the rule rather than the exception.<br />

“As with cocaine, continued use of opiates [e.g., heroin]<br />

makes the body rely on the presence of the drug to maintain<br />

“If my date agreed to party with me<br />

on MDA, I knew I was getting laid.”<br />

rewarding feelings and other normal behaviors. The person is<br />

no longer able to feel the benefits of natural rewards (food,<br />

water, sex) and can’t function normally without the drug present.”<br />

11<br />

But as our anonymous Indiana resident above makes clear,<br />

there are exceptions to every rule, and cocaine and heroin<br />

have always been, and will continue to be, sex enhancers for<br />

many users.<br />

“I used to want to do coke and go out, but now<br />

when I do cocaine I just want to go home and spank<br />

the monkey.”—Anonymous male NYC burlesque<br />

performer<br />

~<br />

“I don’t recommend this to anyone trying to stay<br />

away from opiates, but, just the right amount<br />

SEX AND . . . DRUGS 113

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