SEXIS WRONG

Not only does the circumcised man make longer strokes to
stimulate his pleasure areas, he needs to pause, often outside
the vagina, to let the nerve endings recharge. The natural
man’s penis retreats into its foreskin, not having to withdraw
from the vagina.
Jeff O’Hara says you can witness the longer strokes and
withdrawals in X-rated videos with circumcised men. In fact,
he watched a video made of John Bobbitt performing sex.
Bobbitt is the man whose wife, Lorena, cut off his penis.
Doctors reattached the organ, but Bobbitt lost nerve connections.
He performs just like a circumcised man must, O’Hara
says: “Pull out, rest, come in fast. Like pile-driving with punishing
blows.”
Even if the woman can tolerate it, that technique precludes
rhythmic build-up for the clitoris.
In her bestselling book, How to Have an Orgasm...as Often
as You Want, Rachel Swift says a lack of consistent rhythm is
one of the chief causes of a woman’s failure to climax. “If the
pace is broken, so’s the ascent to orgasm.”
Why do so many women fake orgasm? Because so many
men are circumcised. Women know they’re not going to climax
the way he’s doing it…and they’re taking a battering.
They might just as well fake it and hope he gets it over with
soon. Often the best you can do with circumcised sex is to
pleasure the man and woman separately, in succession, rather
than simultaneously.
“It was like we were using each other’s body to masturbate
against,” Jeff says of his marital sex before he restored his
foreskin, “which is not the same as making love. Lovers totally
abandon their individual egos, their individual awareness,
and become a union of pleasuring.”
Here’s a sampling of comments from Kristen O’Hara’s survey
respondents:
My circumcised husband was totally engrossed
in satisfying his own sexual needs; therefore,
he pounded and banged as if he were having
intercourse with a non-feeling person.
~
It feels so good to have the feeling of a man’s
foreskin in my vagina.... [I]t glides easily. Once a
natural penis is in your vagina, you wish it could
stay forever.
~
My natural partner kept more constant pressure
on my whole genital area during intercourse. I felt
like he was in sync with me.... I had more time to
relax, and I would always orgasm before it was
over, so afterwards I felt content.
~
My sexual experiences with three natural men
were extraordinary in the gentleness, sensuality,
and mutuality.
~
Natural men have a more laid-back approach. They
don’t seem to feel as rushed or pressed to achieve
orgasm. They seem to enjoy the act rather than
the resulting orgasm.
~
There is definitely more clitoral stimulation with
natural.
~
Sometimes it’s [circumcised sex] too much work
for too little reward. When it’s over I think to
myself, “Thank God he finally came.”
~
I have noticed that the vagina is much more
accepting of the natural penis. Once the head of
the natural penis is at the opening of the vagina, it
just kind of naturally slides in.
~
I’ve often said to myself after one of these
circumcised encounters: I would have been better
off masturbating.
~
With my natural man, I always glow after
intercourse, but with circumcised men, I couldn’t
wait to get dressed and get away from them. I
never glowed.
~
The visual effect of seeing an impending erection
just starting to peek out of its foreskin is just so
much sexier.
~
I never made the connection between this feeling
of hostility and circumcised sex until now.
O’Hara’s research was first published in the British Journal of
Urology in 1999. Bestselling author Dr. Christiane Northrup 12
credits the research for helping her fully understand the reasons
for the design of the penis and foreskin.
“I always felt that the male foreskin, one of the most richly
enervated and hyperelastic pieces of tissue in the male body,
is there for a reason,” she wrote in an article for her newsletter,
Health Wisdom for Women (June 2001). “Until recently, I
didn’t know exactly what that reason was. But now thanks to
Kristen O’Hara’s well-researched book...I finally understand
the reasons for the design of the penis and foreskin and how
this design ensures optimal penile function, including the
organ’s ability to satisfy the female sexually.
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