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ecome hardened or keratinized.)
While foreskin restoration can replace this protective covering,
merely stretching the skin cannot restore the special
orgasmic triggers and glands that were cut and eliminated.
Especially the very sensitive frenulum.
The frenulum is the connecting tissue of the foreskin and
shaft. Structurally, it is similar to the frenulum that connects
the tongue to the base of the mouth. In the same way that
the frenulum controls the tongue, researchers believe the penile
frenulum controls thrusting. It’s on the underside of the
shaft, or on top of an erect penis when a man is lying on his
back. It, too, is highly enervated, erogenous tissue.
“Often only a remnant of the frenulum is left after circumcision,
if it is not also removed,” says anti-circumcision crusader
Marilyn Milos. “Many circumcised men consider it their
‘G-spot,’ but only because their ‘G-area,’ the ridged band and
frenular delta, has been removed.” 10
During sex, there is a way to compensate for that loss, Jeff
O’Hara found. “The ridged band of the foreskin and the skin of
the nipples are comprised of the same specialized nerve tissue
called ‘rete ridges.’ Nipple skin abounds with Meissner’s
corpuscles (erotically responsive, touch-sensitive nerves),
like those found in the foreskin and frenulum.
“The design of the natural penis
indicates that nature intended for
pleasure and orgasm to be induced
by actions taking place mostly in the
upper area of the penis.”
“When you have your partner twiddle your nipples during intercourse,
combined with the increased pleasure experienced
after restoration, I reckon that it heightens your sexual feelings
to those experienced by the genitally intact man when
his penis alone is stimulated during intercourse.... During this
activity, the levels of ecstasy are so magnificent, I don’t feel
cheated in any way, even though I’m missing the nerves of
the ridged ban.”
Her personal experiences 11 and comparisons led to attempts
to discover if she was alone in her feelings. She wasn’t! Surveys
of about 138 women showed that almost all of them
prefer natural sex. It was the difference between not being
able to get enough and, “There, that’ll hold you for a few
days.” Sitcoms spend a lot of time on male jokes about pursuing
sex in the face of expected feminine refusal because it
reflects the situation in the real world, she says.
Women in their twenties are often gung ho, regardless; in
their thirties, it’s okay, she says, but much beyond that age
their interest falls off with their lessening vaginal lubrication
and the built-up resentment of sex that too often has been
uncomfortable and unsatisfying.
Female partners of circumcised men become aroused, crave
the sensation of penetration, and enjoy orgasm just as much
as partners of intact men. But they express dissatisfaction
with the overall experience of sexual relations. Kristen was no
different. She loved her husband and they were compatible,
but their relationship wasn’t good sexually.
“Our love lacked depth,” she writes, “the kind of depth that
exists when a couple has a deeply satisfying, exquisitely delicious,
sensuous, sexual interconnectedness.” Because sex
with Jeff was annoying, even though desired, Kristen drifted
back into her uncircumcised lover’s bed.
“During our rendezvous, I couldn’t help but notice that his
penis felt much more sensuous inside me; it felt infinitely better,
deliciously better, indescribably better.
“In characterizing the differences…I would say
the circumcised experience is like being repeatedly
penetrated in an annoying way, even
though simultaneously there is pleasure. And
the penis feels too hard, almost foreign-like—
you want it, but don’t want it, at the same time,
driven onward only in hopes of achieving orgasm, the sooner
the better. Whereas, with natural, the vagina totally surrenders
to the soft sensuousness of lingering ecstasy, as it hungrily
caresses and lovingly responds to the erotic movements of the
softly-stiff penis, and the penis adores and gently strokes the
vagina in return.
“Like two halves of a perfect whole, each organ swoons and
sighs to a passionate intermingling…
Sex as Nature Intended It came about after Kristen O’Hara
experienced both natural and circumcised sex and tried to
make sense of the difference. While happily married to Jeff,
she came to realize that foreskin is what’s missing in millions
of bedrooms across America—bedrooms where sex is unfulfilling,
uncomfortable, and/or avoided.
“With no holding back, you TOTALLY want it, you TOTALLY
need it, and you TOTALLY love it.”
One explanation: Since the natural penis tends to stay more
deeply embedded in the vagina using short strokes, it brings
the man’s pubic area in frequent contact with the woman’s
clitoral mound, allowing her clitoris to be pressure-pleasured
more often and at a consistent rhythmical rate throughout
much of intercourse.
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