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MRAVNÃ VÃCHOVA V Å KOLÃCH NA SLOVENSKU A V ZAHRANI ÄÃ
MRAVNÃ VÃCHOVA V Å KOLÃCH NA SLOVENSKU A V ZAHRANI ÄÃ
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a burden. She thanked me and her mood improved.<br />
9. Consequences in the environment: The climate between them is the way it always was: excellent.<br />
And it is too early to assess the relationship between my friend and her friend, but it is good for the time<br />
being.<br />
10. Consequences for the actor: I only wanted her to feel better and reflect on the relationship with her<br />
friend. My intention was for her to feel better, regardless of what decision she took.<br />
11. Observations: Sometimes we think that the only right way to act is ours, and it’s hard for us to<br />
understand that others don’t see it that way. As a result, we often draw erroneous conclusions.<br />
REGISTRATION FILE FOR PROSOCIAL ACTION no. 27<br />
1. Name of actor or student: Nuria P R.<br />
2. Background: We always need people to value us.<br />
3. Type: Positive confirmation of someone else.<br />
4. Description of the action: I praised one aspect of the personality of someone with whom I do not get<br />
on well.<br />
5. Variables for the actor: I was in a normal mood. I would value the cost at 3.<br />
6. Variables for the recipient: This is a person I do not get on with well. He is very handsome, with a<br />
high intellectual level, middle class, not very likeable, with a very different way of seeing things than<br />
mine, reflective.<br />
7. Variables of the action: The prosocial action lasted approximately one minute.<br />
8. Consequences for the recipient: He was attentive, appreciative, he praised me several times and I<br />
perceived a pensive attitude in him.<br />
9. Consequences in the environment: While we were talking after the prosocial action, there was a<br />
type of complicity that hadn’t been there before.<br />
10. Consequences for the actor: I felt satisfied, proud of myself and very coherent.<br />
11. Observations: At first I did not understand why I had to perform a prosocial action with someone I<br />
did not get along with well. The conclusion I have reached afterwards is that it is important to know<br />
how to apprehend the good in something that does not seem so at first.<br />
REGISTRATION FILE FOR PROSOCIAL ACTION no. 28<br />
1. Name of actor or student: Nuria P R.<br />
2. Background: I have often had the feeling that my parents do not feel appreciated.<br />
3. Type: Positive confirmation of someone else.<br />
4. Description of the action: I praised the figure of my parents and the role they played in my<br />
upbringing.<br />
5. Variables for the actor: Normal mood. The cost was 8.<br />
6. Variables for the recipient: My parents are intelligent, very good people, not educated, lively,<br />
sociable, middle-aged.<br />
7. Variables of the action: The action lasted about one minute.<br />
8. Consequences for the recipient: They felt very happy, joyful, moved.<br />
9. Consequences in the environment: One could sense harmony in the air.<br />
10. Consequences for the actor: I thought I had made the two most important people in my life happy<br />
for a moment.<br />
11. Observations: It is hard for me to express my feelings to my family.<br />
REGISTRATION FILE FOR PROSOCIAL ACTION no. 31<br />
1. Name of actor or student: Nuria P R.<br />
2. Background: A person who wanted to be listened to.<br />
3. Type: Verbal consolation, empathy, in-depth listening.<br />
4. Description of the action: A homeless man approached me and told me about his problems.<br />
5. Variables for the actor: My mood was normal.<br />
6. Variables for the recipient: He was a stranger, poor, scruffy, ugly, intelligent.<br />
7. Variables of the action: We were talking for around forty minutes.<br />
8. Consequences for the recipient: He felt appreciative and pleased.<br />
9. Consequences in the environment: We had a relationship of respect, interest and friendliness.<br />
10. Consequences for the actor: My spirits were low after talking to him, but after reflecting I felt very<br />
happy about my life.<br />
11. Observations: We often forget everything positive in us and in our lives. We especially seem at<br />
times incapable of taking advantage of it.<br />
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