Interpersonal Communication- A Mindful Approach to Relationships, 2020a

4.2 Functions of Language
Learning
regulatory functions.
2. Appreciate the interactional and imaginative functions of
language.
3. Examine the personal, ritual, and cultural functions of language.
Outcomes
Based on research examining how children learn language, it was found that children are trying to create
“meaning potential.” 6 In other words, children learn language so they can understand and be understood
by others. As children age, language serves different functions.
Children will typically communicate in a fashion that lets parents/guardians know what they want to do.
When children are born, parents/guardians have to figure out if the child is hungry, thirsty, dirty, or sick.
Later, when the child acquires language, the child can let the parent/guardian know what they want by
using simple words like “eat” or “drink.”
use language to fulfill a need. In Chapter 2, we learned about Maslow’s
Hierarchy of Needs. For us to meet our needs, we need to use language that other people understand.
Language can help us define what we can or cannot do. Often, you might see campaigns that say
“Don’t drink and drive” or “Don’t text and drive” to help control behaviors while driving.
of language are to influence the behaviors of others through requests, rules, or
persuasion. These functions do not necessarily coincide with our needs. These might be advertisements
that tell us to eat healthier or exercise more using specific products.
of language are used to help maintain or develop the relationship. Interactional
functions also help to alleviate the interaction. Examples might include “Thank you,” “Please,” or “I care
about you.”
Imaginative functions of language help to create imaginary constructs and tell stories. This use of
fantasy usually occurs in play or leisure activities. People who roleplay in video games will sometimes
engage in imaginative functions to help their character be more effective and persuasive.
Next, we have , or the use of language to help you form your identity or sense of
self. In job interviews, people are asked, “how do you describe yourself?” For some people, this is a
challenging question because it showcases what makes you who you are. The words you pick, as opposed
to others, can help define who you are.
Perhaps someone told you that you were funny. You never realized that you were funny until that
person told you. Because they used the word “funny” as opposed to “silly” or “crazy,” it caused you to
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