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Interpersonal Communication- A Mindful Approach to Relationships, 2020a

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osses: the different, the good old boy or good old girl, the okay, the <strong>to</strong>xic, the self-centered taskmaster,<br />

and the intrusive harasser.<br />

The Different Boss<br />

First, The Different Boss is someone a subordinate sees as distractingly different from them as a person.<br />

Different subordinates are going <strong>to</strong> view what is “distractingly different” in a wide range of different ways.<br />

Some people who view their bosses as “distractingly different” may also be succumbing <strong>to</strong> their prejudices<br />

about people from various social groups. For example, if someone’s boss is from another country, those<br />

cultural differences can make that subordinate see their boss as distractingly different.<br />

The Good Old Boy or Good Old Girl Boss<br />

Second is the good old boy or good old girl boss. This type of boss is someone who probably hasn’t<br />

progressed along with the modern world of corporate thinking. This person may be gregarious and<br />

outgoing, but they tend <strong>to</strong> see the “old ways of doing things” as best—even when they’re problematic.<br />

These individuals tend <strong>to</strong> see sexual harassment as something that isn’t a big deal in the workplace. Their<br />

subordinates are also more likely <strong>to</strong> view some of their behaviors as unethical.<br />

The Okay Boss<br />

The third type of boss is the okay boss. This person is exactly like the name says, okay and average in just<br />

about every way possible. These individuals are, in many ways, coasting <strong>to</strong>wards retirement. They try not<br />

<strong>to</strong> rock the boat within the organization, so they will never stand up <strong>to</strong> their bosses, nor will they advocate<br />

for their subordinates. For someone who likes work and wants <strong>to</strong> succeed in life, working for one of these<br />

people can be very frustrating because the okay boss likes the status quo and creates an environment in<br />

which the average is the norm and people who exceed the average are the outcasts.<br />

The Toxic Boss<br />

Fourth, we have the <strong>to</strong>xic boss. These bosses are all-around problematic in the workplace. They are often<br />

seen as unethical, obnoxious, and unprofessional by their subordinates. These are the types of bosses<br />

that can create hostile work environments and pit employees against each other for their amusement.<br />

However, when it comes <strong>to</strong> harassing behavior, they are less likely <strong>to</strong> engage in harassment directly. Still,<br />

they can often create environments where both sexual harassment and bullying become the norm.<br />

The Self-Centered Taskmaster<br />

The fifth type of problematic boss is the self-centered taskmaster. The self-centered taskmaster is<br />

ultimately “focused on getting the job done <strong>to</strong> advance their own goals, without concern for others.”<br />

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This type of boss is purely focused on getting work done. This individual may be excessive in the<br />

amount of work they give subordinates. Ultimately, this individual wants <strong>to</strong> show their superiors how<br />

good of a boss they are <strong>to</strong> move up the organizational hierarchy. On the flip side, these people are highly<br />

competent, but their tendency <strong>to</strong> lord power over others in an obnoxious way makes working for this<br />

type of boss very stressful.<br />

The Intrusive Harasser Boss<br />

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