06.09.2021 Views

Interpersonal Communication- A Mindful Approach to Relationships, 2020a

Interpersonal Communication- A Mindful Approach to Relationships, 2020a

Interpersonal Communication- A Mindful Approach to Relationships, 2020a

SHOW MORE
SHOW LESS

Create successful ePaper yourself

Turn your PDF publications into a flip-book with our unique Google optimized e-Paper software.

understand: physiological, psychological, social, and cultural.<br />

<br />

Some of the reasons why we don’t interpret things, in the same way are due <strong>to</strong> physiology. Hence, biology<br />

has an impact on what we do and do not perceive. In this section, we will discuss the various physiological<br />

influences.<br />

1. Senses – Our senses can have an impact on what and where we focus our attention. For instance,<br />

if you have a strong sense of smell, you might be more sensitive <strong>to</strong> a foul-smelling odor compared<br />

<strong>to</strong> someone who cannot smell anything due <strong>to</strong> sinus problems. Our senses give us a different<br />

perception of the world.<br />

2. Age – Age can impact what we perceive. Have you ever noticed that children have so much<br />

energy, and the elderly do not? Children may perceive that there is so much <strong>to</strong> do in a day, and<br />

the elderly may perceive that there is nothing <strong>to</strong> do. Our age influences how we think about things.<br />

3. Health – when we are healthy, we have the stamina and endurance <strong>to</strong> do many things. However,<br />

when we are sick, our bodies may be more inclined <strong>to</strong> rest. Thus, we will perceive a lot of<br />

information differently. For instance, when you are healthy, some of your favorite meals will taste<br />

really good, but when you are sick, it might not taste so good, because you cannot smell things due<br />

<strong>to</strong> a stuffy nose.<br />

4. Hunger – When you are hungry, it is <strong>to</strong>ugh <strong>to</strong> concentrate on anything except food. Studies have<br />

shown that when people are hungry, all they focus on is something <strong>to</strong> eat.<br />

5. Biological cycles – Some people are “morning larks” and some are “night owls.” In other words,<br />

there are peaks where people perform at their highest level. For some individuals, it is late at<br />

night, and for others, it is early in the morning. When people perform at their peak times, they<br />

are likely <strong>to</strong> be more perceptive of information. If you are a person who loves getting up early, you<br />

would probably hate night classes, because you are not able <strong>to</strong> absorb as much information as you<br />

could if the class was in the morning.<br />

<br />

Sometimes the influences on perception are not physiological but psychological. These influences<br />

include mood and self-concept. These influences are based in our mind, and we can’t detect them in<br />

others.<br />

1. Mood – Whether we are happy or sad can affect how we view the world. For instance, if we are<br />

happy, then anything that happens, we might view it more positively.<br />

2. Self-concept – If we have a healthy self-concept of ourselves, we may not be offended if someone<br />

makes a negative remark. Yet, if we have a poor self-concept of ourselves, then we are probably<br />

going <strong>to</strong> be more influenced by negative remarks. The stronger our self-concept is, the more likely<br />

it will affect how we view perceive other people’s communication behaviors <strong>to</strong>ward us.<br />

<br />

Social influences include sex and gender roles, as well as occupational roles. These roles can impact our<br />

perceptions. Because we are in these roles, we might be likely <strong>to</strong> think differently than others in different<br />

roles.<br />

1. Sex and gender roles – We have certain expectations in our culture regarding how men and<br />

<strong>Interpersonal</strong> <strong>Communication</strong> 246

Hooray! Your file is uploaded and ready to be published.

Saved successfully!

Ooh no, something went wrong!