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Interpersonal Communication- A Mindful Approach to Relationships, 2020a

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In addition <strong>to</strong> a dominant culture, most societies have various —regional, economic, social,<br />

religious, ethnic, and other cultural groups that exert influence in society. Other co-cultures develop<br />

among people who share specific beliefs, ideologies, or life experiences. For example, within the United<br />

States we commonly refer <strong>to</strong> a wide variety of different cultures: Amish culture, African American<br />

culture, Buddhist Culture, and lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersexed, and asexual<br />

(LGBTQIA+) culture. With all of these different cultural groups, we must realize that just because<br />

individuals belong <strong>to</strong> a cultural group, that does not mean that they are all identical. For example, African<br />

Americans in New York City are culturally distinct from those living in Birmingham, Alabama, because<br />

they also belong <strong>to</strong> different geographical co-cultures. Within the LGBTQIA culture, the members who<br />

make up the different letters can have a wide range of differing cultural experiences within the larger coculture<br />

itself. As such, we must always be careful <strong>to</strong> avoid generalizing about individuals because of the<br />

co-cultures they belong <strong>to</strong>.<br />

Co-cultures bring their unique sense of his<strong>to</strong>ry and purpose within a larger culture. Co-cultures will<br />

also have their holidays and traditions. For example, one popular co-cultural holiday celebrated in the<br />

United States is Cinco de Mayo. Many U.S. citizens think that Cinco de Mayo is a Mexican holiday.<br />

However, this is not a Mexican holiday. Outside of Puebla, Mexico, it’s considered a relatively minor<br />

holiday even though children do get the day off from school. One big mistake many U.S. citizens make is<br />

assuming Cinco de Mayo is Mexican Independence Day, which it is not. Instead, El Gri<strong>to</strong> de la Indepedencia<br />

(The Cry of Independence) is held annually on September 16 in honor of Mexican Independence from<br />

Spain in 1810. Sadly, Cinco de Mayo has become more of an American holiday than it is a Mexican one.<br />

Just as an FYI, Cinco de Mayo is the date (May 5, 1862) observed <strong>to</strong> commemorate the Mexican Army’s<br />

vic<strong>to</strong>ry over the French Empire at the Battle of Puebla that conclude the Franco-Mexican War (also<br />

referred <strong>to</strong> as the Battle of Puebla Day). We raise this example because often the larger culture coopts<br />

parts of a co-culture and tries <strong>to</strong> adapt it in<strong>to</strong> the mainstream. During this process, the meaning associated<br />

with the co-culture is often twisted or forgotten. If you need another example, just think of St. Patrick’s<br />

Day, which evolved from a religious celebration marking the death of St. Patrick on March 17, 461 CE,<br />

<strong>to</strong> a day when “everyone’s Irish” and drinks green beer.<br />

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The last major term we need <strong>to</strong> explain with regards <strong>to</strong> culture is what is known as a microculture. A<br />

, sometimes called a local culture, refers <strong>to</strong> cultural patterns of behavior influenced by<br />

cultural beliefs, values, norms, and rules based on a specific locality or within an organization. “Members<br />

of a microculture will usually share much of what they know with everyone in the greater society but<br />

will possess a special cultural knowledge that is unique <strong>to</strong> the subgroup.” 6 If you’re a college student<br />

and you’ve ever lived in a dorm, you may have experienced what we mean by a microculture. It’s not<br />

uncommon for different dorms on campus <strong>to</strong> develop their own unique cultures that are distinct from<br />

other dorms. They may have their own exclusive s<strong>to</strong>ries, his<strong>to</strong>ries, mascots, and specializations. Maybe<br />

you live in a dorm that specializes in honor’s students or pairs U.S. students with international students.<br />

Perhaps you live in a dorm that is allegedly haunted. Maybe you live in a dorm that values competition<br />

against other dorms on campus, or one that doesn’t care about the competition at all. All of these<br />

examples help individual dorms develop unique cultural identities.<br />

We often refer <strong>to</strong> microcultures as “local cultures” because they do tend <strong>to</strong> exist among a small<br />

segment of people within a specific geographical location. There’s quite a bit of research on the <strong>to</strong>pic of<br />

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