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Interpersonal Communication- A Mindful Approach to Relationships, 2020a

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ensure that the targets of the bully have a safe and secure place <strong>to</strong> work. Don’t be surprised if this person<br />

decides <strong>to</strong> bully upward, or attempt <strong>to</strong> bully their supervisor.<br />

The Different Other<br />

The fourth common problem subordinate is the different other. Just like the two previous versions of<br />

“difference” discussed for bosses and coworkers, the different other is a subordinate who is perceived<br />

as distinctly different from their supervisor. One thing we know from years of management research is<br />

that people who are perceived as different from their supervisors are less likely <strong>to</strong> enjoy protective and<br />

men<strong>to</strong>ring relationships with their supervisors. As such, when a supervisor views someone as a “different<br />

other,” they may engage in subconscious discrimina<strong>to</strong>ry behavior <strong>to</strong>wards their subordinate.<br />

The Incompetent Renegade<br />

Finally, we have the incompetent renegade. This individual tends <strong>to</strong> be ethically incompetent and views<br />

themself as above the law within the organization. This individual may view themself as better than<br />

the organization <strong>to</strong> begin with, which causes a lot of problems around the office. However, instead of<br />

accomplishing their work, this person is more likely <strong>to</strong> take credit for others’ work. If this subordinate<br />

is allowed <strong>to</strong> keep behaving in this manner, they will be viewed by others as running the place. For this<br />

reason, subordinates need <strong>to</strong> immediately initiate counseling <strong>to</strong> s<strong>to</strong>p the behavior and build a case for<br />

termination if the behavior does not cease.<br />

Key Takeaways<br />

• Workplace deviance involves the voluntary behavior of organizational members<br />

that violates significant organizational norms and practices or threatens the<br />

wellbeing of the organization and its members.<br />

• Janie Harden Fritz has categorized six types of problematic bosses: different, okay<br />

good old boy/girl, <strong>to</strong>xic, self-centered taskmaster, and intrusive harasser. First,<br />

the different boss is someone a subordinate sees as distractingly different from<br />

them as a person. Second, the good old boy/girl boss considers the “old ways<br />

of doing things” as best—even when they’re problematic. Third, the okay boss is<br />

okay and average in just about every way possible, coasting <strong>to</strong>wards retirement.<br />

Fourth, the <strong>to</strong>xic boss is seen as unethical, obnoxious, and unprofessional by<br />

their subordinates. Fifth, the self-centered taskmaster is entirely concerned with<br />

completing tasks with no concern for developing relationships with their followers.<br />

Lastly, the intrusive harasser boss tends <strong>to</strong> be highly interfering and often wants <strong>to</strong><br />

get caught up in their subordinates’ personal and professional lives.<br />

• Janie Harden Fritz categorized eight types of problematic coworkers: adolescent<br />

(wants <strong>to</strong> be the center of attention and get nothing done), the bully (is overly<br />

demanding of their peers and takes credit for their work), the mild annoyance<br />

(engages in disruptive behaviors regularly but not <strong>to</strong> a drastic degree), the<br />

independent self-promoter (likes <strong>to</strong> <strong>to</strong>ot their own horn), the pushy the playboy or<br />

playgirl (pushes people in<strong>to</strong> doing things for them), independent other (perceived<br />

as distinctly different from their coworkers), the soap opera star (loves <strong>to</strong> gossip<br />

and be in the middle of all of the workplace drama), and the abrasive, incompetent<br />

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<strong>Interpersonal</strong> <strong>Communication</strong>

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