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Interpersonal Communication- A Mindful Approach to Relationships, 2020a

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creation of a system that could allow all computers <strong>to</strong> use a single network <strong>to</strong> interact. 3 The first message<br />

<strong>to</strong> be sent was <strong>to</strong> be a simple one, “login.” The letter “l” was sent, then the letter “o,” and then the system<br />

crashed. So, the first message ever sent over what would become the Internet was “lo.” An hour later,<br />

Kline got the system up and running again, and the full word “login” was sent.<br />

In the earliest years of the Internet, most people didn’t know it existed. The Internet was primarily a<br />

<strong>to</strong>ol for the Department of Defense <strong>to</strong> allow researchers at multiple sites across the country <strong>to</strong> work on<br />

defense projects. It was called the Advanced Research Projects Agency Network (). In 1973,<br />

the University College of London (England) and the Royal Radar Establishment (Norway) connected<br />

<strong>to</strong> ARPANET, and the term “Internet” was born. A year later, in 1974, a commercialized version of<br />

ARPANET called Telenet became the first Internet service provider (ISP).<br />

<br />

The early Internet was not exactly designed for your average user, so it <strong>to</strong>ok quite a bit of skill and “know<br />

how” <strong>to</strong> use the Internet and find information. Of course, while the Internet was developing, so was its<br />

capability for allowing people <strong>to</strong> communicate and interact with one another. In 1971, Ray Tomlinson<br />

was working on two programs that could be used over ARPANET: SNDMSG and READMAIL. From<br />

his lab at MIT, Tomlison sent a message from one computer <strong>to</strong> another computer sitting right next <strong>to</strong> it,<br />

sending the message through ARPANET and creating the first electronic email. Tomlison also forever<br />

changed our lives by introducing the “@” symbol as the separa<strong>to</strong>r the Internet uses when sending and<br />

receiving messages.<br />

In addition <strong>to</strong> email, another breakthrough in computer-mediated communication was the<br />

development of Internet forums or , which are online discussion sites where<br />

people can hold conversations in the form<br />

of posted messages. Steve Walker created<br />

an early message board for ARPANET. The<br />

primary message list for professionals was<br />

MsgGroup. The number one message board<br />

that was not business related was SF-Lovers,<br />

a science fiction list. As you can see, from the<br />

earliest days of the Internet, people were using<br />

the Internet as a <strong>to</strong>ol <strong>to</strong> communicate and<br />

interact with people who had similar interests.<br />

One early realization about email and<br />

message boards was that people relied solely<br />

on text <strong>to</strong> interpret messages, which lacked<br />

nonverbal cues <strong>to</strong> aid in interpretation.<br />

On September 19, 1982, Scott Fahlman, a<br />

research professor of computer science at<br />

Carnegie Mellon, came up with an idea. You<br />

see, at Carnegie Mellon in the early 1980s (like<br />

most research universities at the time), they<br />

had their own bulletin board system (BBS),<br />

which discussed everything from campus<br />

politics <strong>to</strong> science fiction. As Fahlman noted,<br />

I propose that the following character<br />

sequence for joke markers:<br />

:-)<br />

Read it sideways. Actually, it is<br />

probably more economical <strong>to</strong> mark<br />

things that are NOT jokes, given<br />

current trends. For this, use<br />

:-(<br />

Figure 12.3 Emoticon Email<br />

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<strong>Interpersonal</strong> <strong>Communication</strong>

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