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Interpersonal Communication- A Mindful Approach to Relationships, 2020a

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intrusive<br />

secretive<br />

manipulative/<br />

exploitative<br />

• uses hidden cameras<br />

• taps telephones<br />

• employs computer technologies <strong>to</strong> moni<strong>to</strong>r employee behavior<br />

• disregards legitimate privacy rights<br />

• uses silence and unresponsiveness<br />

• hoards information<br />

• hides wrongdoing or ineptness<br />

• uses demagoguery<br />

• gains compliance by exploiting fear, prejudice, or ignorance<br />

• patronizes or is condescending <strong>to</strong>ward others<br />

Reprinted with permission from Wrench, Punyanunt, and Ward’s book Organizational <strong>Communication</strong>: Theory, Practice, and Research<br />

(2014, Flat World Knowledge)<br />

Table 13.1. Redding’s Typology of Unethical <strong>Communication</strong><br />

As you can see, unethical organizational communication is an area many people do not overly<br />

consider<br />

<br />

Our second category related <strong>to</strong> professionalism is respecting others. In Disney’s 1942 movie, Bambi,<br />

Thumper sees the young Bambi learning <strong>to</strong> walk, which leads <strong>to</strong> the following interaction with his<br />

mother:<br />

<br />

Mrs. Rabbit: Thumper!<br />

Thumper: Yes, Mama?<br />

Mrs. Rabbit: What did your father tell you this morning?<br />

<br />

Sadly, many people exist in the modern workplace that need a refresher in respect from Mrs. Rabbit<br />

<strong>to</strong>day. From workplace bullying <strong>to</strong> sexual harassment, many people simply do not always treat people<br />

with dignity and respect in the workplace. So, what do we mean by treating someone with respect? There<br />

are a lot of behaviors one can engage in that are respectful if you’re interacting with coworkers, leaders, or<br />

followers. Here’s a list we created of respectful behaviors for workplace interactions:<br />

• Be courteous, polite, and kind <strong>to</strong> everyone.<br />

• Do not criticize or nitpick at little inconsequential things.<br />

• Do not engage in patronizing or demeaning behaviors.<br />

• Don’t engage in physically hostile body language.<br />

• Don’t roll your eyes when your coworkers are talking.<br />

• Don’t use an aggressive <strong>to</strong>ne of voice when talking with coworkers.<br />

• Encourage coworkers <strong>to</strong> express opinions and ideas.<br />

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