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ARE YOU A STAR PERFORMER OR JUST AVERAGE? 55<br />

up trash; they were taking care of people. Magic carried this focus<br />

on people rather than tasks over to his career in both basketball and<br />

business. (Service Orientation and Influence)<br />

Though Johnson had early success in his career, he also had to<br />

deal <strong>with</strong> failures and setbacks. In 1989, at the peak of his illustrious<br />

career, Magic Johnson revealed to a shocked nation that he had<br />

contracted HIV and was retiring from basketball. The sports world<br />

seemed to stand still for a moment as fans and passive observers<br />

alike were left dumbfounded by the news. This startling end to<br />

one of the greatest sports careers ever led many critics to promptly<br />

declare that Johnson’s life was over. Indeed, it would have been easy<br />

for him to slink into the shadows and rest on the laurels of his past<br />

successes, but he possessed an uncanny ability to adapt to new situations.<br />

This adaptability, coupled <strong>with</strong> optimism and a passion to<br />

serve, propelled him toward success in his life after basketball.<br />

<strong>On</strong>e of Johnson’s early business ventures, though, never made it<br />

off of the ground, in large part because Johnson overestimated his<br />

talents. The venture in question was a sports memorabilia store for<br />

which Johnson handpicked the clothing the store would carry. He<br />

found out the hard way that his own tastes did not reflect those of<br />

his customers. In his book, Johnson credits his tremendous accomplishments<br />

in the business world to a willingness to “check my ego<br />

at the door.” This story provides an apt example of the way that overestimation<br />

of one’s skills can become a derailer. However, Johnson<br />

was able to recognize his own weaknesses and change his business<br />

strategy accordingly. (Accurate Self-Assessment, Trustworthiness)<br />

Johnson in his book highlights many of the EI competencies<br />

that have made him successful.<br />

• Vision: <strong>On</strong>e of his first lessons about vision was from his<br />

father’s view of his business. Johnson states, “The vision<br />

should give your business or career purpose and meaning<br />

beyond paying the bills.” 76<br />

• <strong>Emotional</strong> Self-Awareness and <strong>Emotional</strong> Self-Control:<br />

“When fears plant themselves in your mind, they take on

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