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they have purified themselves ye may approach them in any manner time or place ordained<br />

for you by Allah. For Allah loves those who turn to Him constantly and He loves those who<br />

keep themselves pure and clean. 247248<br />

247 Azan: hurt, pollution. Both aspects must be remembered. Physical cleanliness and purity make for health, bodily and<br />

spiritual. But the matter should be looked at from the woman's point of view as well as the man's. To her there is<br />

danger of hurt, and she should have every consideration. In the animal world, instinct is a guide which is obeyed.<br />

Man should in this respect be better: he is often worse. (2.222)<br />

248 Haithu: A comprehensive word referring to manner, time, or place. The most delicate matters are here referred to in<br />

the most discreet and yet helpful terms. In sex morality, manner, time, and place are all important: and the highest<br />

standards are set by social laws, by our own refined instinct of mutual consideration, and above all, by the light shed<br />

by the highest Teachers form the wisdom which they receive from our Maker, Who loves purity and cleanliness in all<br />

things. (2.222)<br />

2:223 - Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will. But do some<br />

good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah and know that ye are to meet Him (in the<br />

Hereafter) and give (these) good tidings to those who believe. 249250<br />

249 Sex is not a thing to be ashamed of, or to be treated lightly, or to be indulged to excess. It is as solemn a fact as any<br />

in life. It is compared to a husbandman's tilth; it is a serious affair to him; he sows the seed in order to reap the<br />

harvest. But he chooses his own time and mode of cultivation. He does not sow out of season nor cultivate in a<br />

manner which will injure or exhaust the soul. He is wise and considerate and does not run riot. Coming from the<br />

simile to human beings, every kind of mutual consideration is required, but above all, we must remember that even in<br />

these matters there is a spiritual aspect. We must never forget our souls, and that we are responsible to God. (2.223)<br />

4:1 – O mankind! reverence your Guardian-Lord Who created you from a single person created of<br />

like nature his mate and from them twain scattered (like seeds) countless men and women;<br />

reverence Allah through Whom ye demand your mutual (rights) and (reverence) the wombs<br />

(that bore you): for Allah ever watches over you. 504505506<br />

506 Among the most wonderful mysteries of our nature is that of sex. The unregenerate male is apt, in the pride of his<br />

physical strength, to forget the all-important part which the female plays in his very existence, and in all the social<br />

relationships that arise in our collective human lives. The mother that bore us must ever have our reverence. The wife,<br />

through whom we enter parentage, must have our reverence. Sex, which governs so much of our physical life, and<br />

has so much influence on our emotional and higher nature, deserves-not our fear, or our contempt, or our amused<br />

indulgence, but-our reverence in the highest sense of the term. With this fitting introduction we enter on a discussion<br />

of women, orphans, and family relationships. (4.1)<br />

23:5 - Who abstain from sex 2867<br />

2867 The Muslim must guard himself against every kind of sex abuse or sex perversion. The new<br />

psychology associated with the name of Freud traces many of our hidden motives to sex, and<br />

it is common knowledge that our refinement or degradation may be measured by the hidden<br />

workings of our sex instincts. But even the natural and lawful exercise of sex is restricted to<br />

the marriage bond, under which the rights of both parties are duly regulated and maintained.<br />

(23.5)<br />

23:6 - Except with those joined to them in the marriage bond or (the captives) whom their right<br />

hands possess for (in their case) they are free from blame 2868<br />

2868 This is further explained and amplified in iv. 25. (23.6)<br />

24:1 – A Surah which We have sent down and which We have ordained: in it have We sent down<br />

Clear Signs in order that ye may receive admonition. 2953<br />

2953 It must not be thought that the checking of sex offences or of minor improprieties, that relate to sex or privacy, are<br />

matters that do not affect spiritual life in the highest degree. These matters are intimately connected with spiritual<br />

teaching such as Allah has sent down in this Sura. The emphasis is on "We": these things are not mere matters of<br />

convenience, but Allah has ordained them for our observance in life. (24.1)<br />

24:30 - Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that<br />

will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do. 2983<br />

2983 The rule of modesty applies to men as well as women. A brazen stare by a man at a woman (or even at a man) is a<br />

breach of refined manners. Where sex is concerned, modesty is not only "good form": it is not only to guard the<br />

weaker sex, but also to guard the spiritual good of the stronger sex. (24.30)<br />

24:31 - And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty;<br />

that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear<br />

thereof; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except<br />

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