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Molecular Biology of the Cell by Bruce Alberts, Alexander Johnson, Julian Lewis, David Morgan, Martin Raff, Keith Roberts, Peter Walter by by Bruce Alberts, Alexander Johnson, Julian Lewis, David Morg

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subservience to an abusive partner. These are signs of an abusive

relationship explained by psychologist Leslie Becker-Phelps:

Psychological and emotional abuse: Undermining a partner’s

self-worth with verbal a acks, name-calling, and beli ling.

Humiliating the partner in public, unjustly accusing them of having

an affair, or interrogating them about their every behavior. Keeping

partner confused or off balance by saying they were just kidding or

blaming the partner for ‘making’ them act this way … Feigning in

public that they care while turning against them in private. This

leads to victims frequently feeling confused, incompetent, unworthy,

hopeless, and chronically self-doubting. [Apply these techniques to

how governments have treated the population since New Year, 2020,

and the parallels are obvious.]

Physical abuse: The abuser might physically harm their partner in

a range of ways, such as grabbing, hi ing, punching, or shoving

them. They might throw objects at them or harm them with a

weapon. [Observe the physical harm imposed by masks, lockdown,

and so on.]

Threats and intimidation: One way abusers keep their partners in

line is by instilling fear. They might be verbally threatening, or give

threatening looks or gestures. Abusers o en make it known that

they are tracking their partner’s every move. They might destroy

their partner’s possessions, threaten to harm them, or threaten to

harm their family members. Not surprisingly, victims of this abuse

o en feel anxiety, fear, and panic. [No words necessary.]

Isolation: Abusers o en limit their partner’s activities, forbidding

them to talk or interact with friends or family. They might limit

access to a car or even turn off their phone. All of this might be done

by physically holding them against their will, but is o en

accomplished through psychological abuse and intimidation. The

more isolated a person feels, the fewer resources they have to help

gain perspective on their situation and to escape from it. [No words

necessary.]

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