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elations with Ibrāhīm al‐Mawṣilī, a man that did not happen to be her master. That attitude of<br />

freedom is reflected in many different stories. Although it seems logical that being a slave in that<br />

context implied complete lack of sexual liberties, the sources surprise us very often with information<br />

that is contrary to that apparently obvious truth. Moreover, it has to be stressed that some of the<br />

qiyān lived part of their life as freedwomen or free concubines maintained by their partners, a fact<br />

that could further strengthen that attitude.<br />

With reference to the freed qiyān, it is interesting to see how they behaved when they found<br />

themselves in the position of masters. A relevant example concerns the freed songstress Duqāq,<br />

renowned for her libertine manners. Duqāq had two mulatto slaves and she once proposed to one of<br />

them to have sexual relations with her. Her slave could not respond physically to her request but she<br />

did not give up. In order to stimulate his sexual appetite, she told him: “Make love to me and I will<br />

free you.” The young man replied: “You make love to me and then sell me to the Arabs.” Finally, the<br />

narrator does not provide us with any more information about the end of this episode. 7 Nevertheless,<br />

the given information is enough to make the reader contemplate the fact that, perhaps, both women<br />

and men are equally prone to the game of sex and power.<br />

Another remarkable case is that of ‘Ubayda al‐Ṭunbūriyya, the famous tambour player and<br />

songstress of the Abbasid era. ‘Ubayda must have been one of the most libertine women of her time.<br />

The story of her life is rather atypical. It seems that she was born free and received her musical<br />

education by a tambour specialist called al‐Zubaydī, a man that used to visit her family when she was<br />

a child. ‘Ubayda turned out to be a gracious and talented young woman, able to attract men’s<br />

attention around her. When her father died, she went to live with ‘Alī b. al‐Faraj al‐Rukhkhajī, a minor<br />

but wealthy courtier with whom she got married and had a daughter. Once she became a mother, her<br />

husband would not permit her to go out and meet people, but her passionate nature never complied<br />

with any prohibition. She kept meeting her lovers outside the house, under the excuse of going to the<br />

ḥammām (bathhouse).<br />

She led that life for a while until her daughter died and her husband repudiated her, and she<br />

found herself wandering around, trying to survive by singing for a couple of dinars. Finally, she ended<br />

up living in different houses with different people, falling in love, flirting and enjoying sex as she<br />

wished. According to the Kitāb al‐Aghānī, her sexual appetite was voracious. She could hardly reject<br />

any sexual proposition, as her taste included almost all men, of all kinds and all ages. Among her<br />

lovers, there was a young man called Abū Karb b. Abī l‐Khaṭṭāb, who had notable physical defects.<br />

When somebody asked her how come she felt attracted to him, she replied that she was able to find<br />

pleasure in all kinds of men except the black ones, as her soul did not like them. Regarding her lover<br />

Abū Karb, she let him understand that she liked him because he was always willing to offer her his<br />

house and satisfy her needs. According to her very own words, he protected her when she needed it<br />

and beat her when she needed it. Apart from him, there was another man in her life that shared that<br />

peculiar sense of familiarity with her. That was a slave of hers, called ‘Alī, who would also satisfy her<br />

lascivious impulses. About that certain young man, she expressed the following rather crude opinion:<br />

“He is like a miller’s mule: he can carry things, he can mill and he can be ridden.” 8<br />

Some qiyān’s freedom of expression about sexual matters was extraordinary, sometimes<br />

reaching the limits of grotesque. In another story about the accomplished songstress Duqāq, it is<br />

related that she was once in the house of Ḥamdūna, Hārūn al‐Rashīd’s daughter, when a cloth trader<br />

with his assistant visited the latter. That day, it was Duqāq that went out to do the bargaining with<br />

them. When she appeared in front of them, she was holding in her hand a fan (mirwaḥa). On the<br />

front side she had written: “A vagina needs two penises more than a penis needs two vaginas.” And,<br />

on the back side, the sentence was completed as following: “… just as a mill needs two mules more

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