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to allow anyone force her into an arranged marriage like hers. When Lami died during childbirth the<br />

father again gave out six years old Fatima’s hand in marriage to the same Islamic scholar without a<br />

second thought. With no way out of her predicament, Fatima ran away on the eve of the wedding.<br />

Coincidentally she was picked up by a voluntary health worker Hajiya Zubaida who had earlier<br />

begged Fatima’s father to allow her educate Fatima in the city. Hajiya Zubaida took her in as a foster<br />

daughter. Her life in the city and change of scene made Fatima develop into a better person because<br />

she was enrolled into formal education, where she excelled through elementary school, college and<br />

university.<br />

Aware of her son Bashir’s sinister and unholy advances at Fatima, Hajiya Zubaida insisted he<br />

marries her. This he did against his wish. Fatima enjoyed the protection of matrimony for some time<br />

until fate stuck once again and Hajiya Zubaida died. Bashir on his part saw this as a way out of what<br />

he called a loveless and forced marriage. He married a new wife and consequently divorced Fatima.<br />

Fatima escaped narrowly the antics and escapades of Bashir and his lawyer friend and moved in with<br />

Hajiya Hassana, Zubaida’s partner in voluntary work. In her search for a better life, Fatima later got<br />

married to an emir who had been childless for almost twenty years. When she gave birth to a<br />

daughter instead of an heir to the throne, she was accused of adultery by her husband and<br />

sentenced to death. Her escape to the city with her daughter Amina only caused her more trauma<br />

and hardship in the hands of men. Fatima documented her life story before her painful death where<br />

she instructed her daughter Amina to reject and resist any form of cultural or traditional subjugation<br />

against women; and to venture into the world and find out if really there is a place where women are<br />

treated as human beings. Amina struggled despite obstacles to acquire qualitative education and<br />

rose to become an advocate of women empowerment. She succeeded in achieving relevance and<br />

importance for women in the society, by not only building the economy or reforming the society but<br />

also excelling in politics which used to be a no go field for women. Amina later brought her father,<br />

the emir who had rejected her and all other men who had maltreated her mother and other women<br />

to submission.<br />

Discussions:<br />

In Mace Mutum Abdulmajid examines the place of women both in traditional and contemporary<br />

settings and the different treatments meted out on them by men as their fathers, husbands, brothers<br />

or son; as well as the limits imposed upon them by societal, cultural and traditional restrictions. The<br />

happenings depict the situation of women in the society under discourse. Even though women try to<br />

free themselves from traditional and social dogmas;<br />

Women slave and labor for seventeen hours, ….doing house hold chores. This does not<br />

in any way attest to the fact that women are over populated or cheap to get. Eight out of<br />

every ten girls in village get married before the age of fourteen; while, five out of these<br />

ten girls have complications during childbirth and most often die by the time they are<br />

about fifteen years of age before medical help arrives. 6<br />

Women as wives suffer rather than enjoy the fruits of their labour and they are denied any right<br />

to question the actions of their husbands. They are separated from their children against their wish;<br />

while the boys are sent to far away town and handed over to Islamic scholars at very tender age, the<br />

girls are married off to unknown suitors at the tender age of six. They are kept in subjection, in<br />

hopeless and helpless situations often without education because of cultural practices and religious<br />

beliefs.<br />

One of the most persistent forms of subjugation discussed by Abdulmajid is the one found in the<br />

marriage institution. The husband is usually chosen by the father and neither the girl nor her mother<br />

is consulted or has the right to reject the father’s decision. Fatima’s father gave his daughter Lami’s<br />

hand in marriage to a visiting Islamic cleric just because at the age of fourteen she was yet to get a<br />

suitor from the village; no one dared questioned his actions and when he came into the house he<br />

broke the news to his wives thus; “I have given Lami’s hand in marriage to a visitor cleric and luckily<br />

he has gladly accepted; he will come for her in two weeks time.” 7> When Lami showed her<br />

disapproval, all her mother could say was;

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